My bf and I are currently going through some stress right now since his exes spotted us in public together at an event. One of them who he dated briefly last year began harassing us for the past couple of days after this in reaction. She also began spam liking and following his other ex who he dated for 3 years and they broke up almost 2 years ago. Last night we had some shots with his family at his house and we both got pretty drunk. I started feeling nauseous and sick and I had to go to his room to lay down while periodically getting up to rush to the bathroom to puke. He stayed in the living room which is close to his room so I could hear whatever was happening. At one point I notice he’s talking to someone on the phone, and I hear him say his ex’s name several times while addressing her. He was talking to his ex that he dated for three years. This happened at around 2 am. I could do nothing but listen because I was incapacitated, but I passed out and confronted him in the morning. He said that she called to tell him about the spam liking and following from the other ex, which I know is true because I heard him discuss it. My problem is: why did she call at 2 am and why did he answer? He says he did it because he felt like she would have some news of his other ex doing something crazy because of him since she has been on a rampage recently. He showed me the call receipts and I saw the call only lasted ten minutes. Should I be mad about this or worried? I don’t know how to feel… just knowing he was talking to her at 2 am while drunk is making me so sad rn. Thinking about how many times he said her name in conversation with her is repeating in my head on an endless loop. How do I get over this and move on? I know he wasn’t thinking but I’m deeply hurt.
He blocked her on everything without me asking him to after I voiced my feelings. I guess I’m wondering if he still has feelings for her if he’s willing to answer at 2 am?
TLDR; my bf answered a phone call from his ex at 2 am, the conversation was innocent enough but I don’t know how to move past this.