My girlfriend said when we are getting hot and heavy, sometimes she starts thinking too much and it’s hard for her to continue. She said weed or alcohol usually helps with that. But sometimes she’s also worried about pregnancy, even though we always wear condoms. Of course, I always respect her and when she chooses not to continue, I stop. But I’d like to know a way to help ease her mind without external things like drugs. I don’t want to gas light her by saying things like “you’re over thinking, everything will be fine”. We also rarely ever have sex, mostly foreplay, which is fine but it would be nice to be able to connect further more than once every month or two. Given we both live with our parents it makes it extra hard to find a time and place. She wants help with this too, so I’m reaching out on here for the both of us