Hi! So I caught my boyfriend (M25) trying to get into my phone (F25). He came to bed after me and I was laying lower on the bed so he couldn’t tell that I was actually dozing in and out. My phone was on my side furthest away from him so he must have quietly reached over and grabbed it. I first thought he was on his phone but as he put it down I saw it was disabled…. sooo he must have been trying to remember my password. (which I have been very open about and have never hidden or changed since I’ve been with him) This man was putting my phone in front of my face trying to get the Face ID to unlock in and I had to quickly shut my eyes 😭
For some context, whenever I’m on my phone for a long time he asks what I’m doing and I show him lol I’m haven’t even wanted to look at another guy since we started dating and I have literally nothing to hide. There’s some old pictures and texts he might not love to see (i never found the need to delete) but it is all from before I met him.
We had a conversation literally a week ago about how it’s very frustrating to me that he doesn’t trust me. I’ve really tried to give him the benefit of the doubt because I know he’s been cheated on in the past as has some really bad trust issues. I’ve been cheated on an absurd amount of times so I get it but still I’m just so sick of feeling him keeping tabs on my phone 24/7
Guess I’m just looking for advice! I don’t want to breakup by any means. Maybe some tips on how to make him feel more at ease in the relationship? I’ve had that anxiety before about past partners and it really is the worst feeling. There’s no reason for him to feel that way and wanna do my best to help