We’ve been dating for almost 4 years now, but I just starting to understand and see that she doesn’t seem to support me and just wants to make me feel like I’m in the wrong.
I always tell her if I’m mad/upset/annoyed at someone if I feel like they did wrong to me or did something I didn’t like, and everytime I do so, regardless who it is, she can’t ever just take my side with anyone about anything. She always has to go against me with whatever it’s about. I’m just coming to the point where I don’t bother telling her anything. I could have full reasoning to be mad but it never seems to be okay.
But if this was vice versa she would be livid at me for sticking up or taking someone else’s side.
I just hope to find out what I can say to her or just any sort of advice. I know it could sound childish or immature but after awhile it gets really irritating when it’s always me in the wrong.
Thank you guys for any help you can give me. How do I approach the conversation? How do I bring that up and what am I even supposed to say?
TLDR my girlfriend doesn’t support me or have my back