So i’ve been sexually active since i was 18, i am (M)21 now, I haven’t really spoken about this but i am seeing if reddit has any advice or answers,
Basically whenever i go to have sex i get soft almost immediately, i can receive oral and be hard but more often than not i just get soft, does anybody know potential reasons or solutions? I get hard when i masturbate, so i am not sure if it is a physical issue, i get horny and want to have sex but i just clam up when the time comes, any tips or advice is greatly appreciated.
P.S. I don’t have the healthiest body image of myself, i was molested by a girl when i was 8/9 and my diet is your typical American diet. I know these are contributors but i don’t know how to go about them