So for some backstory me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over a year and she’s perfect in every way for me. The issue is very rarely do we have actual sex, we do but probably once a month if that. Instead she gives me a handjob and I finger her which we do almost every night I see her, but it just doesn’t satisfy me. She has a kid with someone else and I see how maybe that could play a factor, but I’m only 22 and was having tons of sex before meeting her. Now a year later I love everything about her and our life, but I’m just not being satisfied sexually anymore by handjobs. How do I go about talking to her about this, without it causing issues are hurting her feelings. It’s nothing to do with her it just doesn’t feel good or get me off anymore.
TL;DR
How can I tell my girlfriend that handjobs and mutual masturbation doesn’t do it for me anymore