Long story short. Me and my girlfriend had amazing sex the first month and I encouraged her to tell me what she needs from me to make the sex even better. The next few months I’ve really stopped enjoying sex with her because I feel like anything I do doesn’t arouse/please her. We are quite sexually incompatible. I used to be confident and comfortable having sex but with her I feel like I suck. It gets me nervous now and today I didn’t even get erected before having sex. It’s just not enjoyable anymore. I don’t know how to regain my confidence that I can please a woman. I never struggled with this at all beforehand.
Personally I just don’t feel as aroused. It’s hard to fake the biting, licking, kissing, passion. I want to make it work.
I don’t know what to do about it. We have talked extensively about this.