Hi Everyone,
I (32F) SEX is AMAZING with my husband (35M).
My issue is mine, I am an uptight person, and it translates into our sex life. I have learned I am only able to have multiple orgasms when high (molly or enough weed). I am less sensitive and honestly just let go enough to enjoy it more.
Anyone else go through something like this? Any tips on how to relax and just enjoy the moment? Get out of my own head?
Thank you
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My wife is the same & on SSRIs. Usually weed or a few drinks get her laid back enough to bust nuts
Audio porn just prior. Also edge yourself. Gets your head clear and body ready…
Watch some professional sex and relationship coaches on youtube free. Watch together. Helena Nista, Alex Grendi, Caitlin V, and many others. They promote their paid course a couple minutes, then discuss so many useful insights and techniques free. Well worth it.
Also check out – (start 7min in if you don’t have much time)
How to have “real” orgasms | Emily Nagoski
On youtube. Explains how to have better and easier orgasms.
It is magnificent to enjoy a woman while she is rolling through Os and then get their O after a few rounds.
Especially for women…consider…
Exercises that involve your pelvis area, shortly before sex. L-arginine or L-citrulline supplement about 30 minutes before sex. CBD enriched orgasm enhancers such as foria or dani pepper orgasm enhancers. Lots of touching and kissing throughout the day. Sexting. Teasing and building sexual tension. Watching each other masturbate awhile. Give each other a warm coconut oil massage. Cannabis. 1-2 (no more) drink just prior.
Certain sex furniture helps with physical challenges. A tantra chair and massage table make touching, positions, and angles easier. Knock off brand tantra chair is around $250. Massage table that holds the weight of 2 people is around $125. Wand $70.