So I’m kinda talking with this girl, and the other day we went into Spencer’s messing looking at clothes and glasses and all that and got to the “sex part of the store “ there was lil booklet with like a couple sex positions and I had responded saying “ ooo that one I’ve done, those other ones nah I haven’t “ something in the ball park like that. And she responded in a jokingly, teasing way, “ your sex is vanilla “ meaning like the basics. We joked about it and all that. She’s seems more type of goth/emo girl that likes shi rough and it got me wondering like what she considers “unvanilla”. Obviously I can just ask her but I don’t want to yet. I haven’t told her or hinted that I like my prostTe played with and might even consider prostate toy. I have not experienced that but I wouldn’t mind not trying it. So what do yall do to not be so vanilla??