Hi all, I am a 30M and trying to figure out how the heck I find women who are assertive. I am not talking about dom/sub stuff, but women who are willing to go against traditional dating scripts. I am tired of dating women who do not seem to put in the effort for me (not initiating plans, not initiating physical intimacy, etc). Dating often feels one-sided and it is difficult.
I would like a partnership where we are both excited to see and be with each other and I am finding it difficult when I am cast using a traditional man’s dating script.
Could I please get some advice? Maybe even ways of identifying this early on in getting to know someone?