I’m an introverted & socially anxious person, and I’ve noticed that normal “outgoing” people just talk about themselves, personal stories etc.
And I’ve thought to myself that I can do the same thing, but as soon as I talk I feel like no one cares. I’ll tell a story and the reaction might be underwhelming like someone might just say “that’s crazy” and that’ll kill my whole vibe and make me want to stop talking.
So now basically I only tell stories if they’re 100% guaranteed interesting. Maybe it also has to do with my delivery? Like I need to be more animated and loud idk.