I’m a 16 yo male, circumcised. I’ve yet to come across a single instance of anyone else having this particular issue.
I’m first going to clarify what i mean by “top” and “bottom” half of my penis incase it is unclear. Imagine I’m a 16 yo male, circumcised. I’ve yet to come across a single instance of anyone else having this particular issue. I’m first going to clarify what i mean by “top” and “bottom” half of my penis incase it is unclear. Imagine a man standing up straight, and the penis is pointing directly forward. You are viewing the side profile of this man. You draw a horizontal line along the middle of his penis. The half facing toward the ceiling is the top, and the half pointing toward the floor is the bottom.
The “bottom half” of the head of my penis is functional, it is not as sensitive as I would like but it feels good when touched and stimulated and feels better as I near orgasm. However, the top half of my penis head is the opposite. It is very uncomfortable to the touch. I don’t believe this is due to oversensitivity, all sensation derived from the top half is a weird uncomfortable feeling. It has no capacity to produce pleasure for me. This is very troubling because it gets in the way of any sexual pleasure I try to have. I basically have to avoid touching the entire top half of the head when masturbating otherwise I have to deal with this unpleasant sensation the entire time I masturbate, which greatly diminishes my enjoyment and makes me feel like i’m not normal since I don’t know anyone else with this problem.
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However, the biggest thing that has caused me to seek a solution for this is intimacy with my girlfriend. I have fingered her and given her head on numerous occasions and I take a lot of pleasure in making her feel good. She has just recently given me head for the first time, and this stupid sensation on the top of my penis ruined it. It felt great on the bottom half, but the top was uncomfortable the entire time. I didn’t enjoy it as much as I wanted to and knew I should have. I just want my girlfriend to be able to pleasure me as I do her and I don’t want when we someday have sex to be ruined by this.
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This is not just a sexual problem as it is also very uncomfortable to walk around and constantly feel my clothes rubbing against it. I have to readjust often and I wear loose underwear but it doesn’t help. I can’t remember if this has always been a problem since I started masterbating, but I can say it has gotten worse over time. Thank you for reading this wall of text and I appreciate any advice at all you can offer that might help. If you need any more details I would be happy to provide