I have been dating this guy for 3 months, and we have had sex several times. We see eachother at least once a week, and usually have sex 2-3 times on the day we see eachother. He comes every time we have sex, but i never do whatever he does. Before him i was a virgin, he had only had one night stands drunk so i am also the first regular sex partner that has. I have experimented with myself and have made myself come several times. However i cant seem to come during sex with him, him giving me oral or fingering me, and i feel bad about it because he really want to make me come or orgasm. I am attracted to him and really enjoy sex. What could be the issue here? Does he just have to work on his tecnique? Am i not relaxed enough? Sometimes i feel it coming, but then it stops or i kind of fall out of it? Almost like every time im about to come i lose it before climax? I dont undersand the reason for this. Could anyone offer some thoughts about this?