I (16f) got into my first relationship with my boyfriend in November,We are both each other’s first so we didn’t really know what to do,At the beginning of the relationship everything was perfect (we were both supporting each other and hyping each other up) and at the first two week of our relationship I introduced him to my whole FAMILY even both my parents side,I let everyone know that I have a boyfriend because i was so proud and very excited meanwhile he didn’t even think about introducing me to his family except for that one time where he said it “jokingly”. The relationship lasted 3 months and 2 days after valentines we broke up.His red flags were coming out and I realized that he was a bit controlling and manipulative to the point where I felt like he has a leash around me which lead to me running back to him even now,In the middle of the relationship he always blamed me for being nonchalant??? Because I wasn’t as “clingy” as him and also we fought a lot because he wanted to be loved the same way he loves which I replied with “Well I don’t think I can do that because I want to love you in my own way,I want to let you feel how I love you and not the mindset you want me to have back bla bla” that fight never really disappeared and I feel like that played a huge part.My mom read my conversation with him and she was like “???????” Because she was a bit shocked with his behaviour,I even asked all of my friends for advice because I really wanted to make the relationship last.We got to the topic of “have you met his family yet?” AND THATS WHEN IT HIT ME,I KID U NOT.ON THE 3 and a half MONTHS OF THE RELATIONSHIP I haven’t met his family especially his mom who was kinda mean when he told her I’m his girlfriend-Fast forward to today,We’re still in touch and we still send each other memes from time to time but sometimes I can’t shake the feeling of sadness and anger whenever we initiate contact

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