(30, M) Basically, I’m having trouble with the two ends of the spectrum of dating.
I’ve been a little burnt out by dating and more specifically the dating apps, so I’ve deleted them all. They went fairly well, but I just needed a break from them.
I’m trying to generate more social interactions with new people so have been looking to attend a running club and other activities.
However, I’m knackered from the week behind me and I don’t feel like I’ll be the best socially.
Should I be living life to the full and trying to grab at every chance of meeting new people? Or should I take some time to recharge my social battery?
I always feel I owe it to myself to explore every single opportunity as that’s how you give yourself the best chance of finding someone, but also I do need to learn that it isn’t always the best course of action.
Anyone have any thoughts on this? Should I be as active as possible or should I recognise that opportunity is only opportunity when it’s in the moment, and it’s fine to have one pass you by every now and then?