Hi, I met a girl on tinder 6 weeks ago. We have gone on plenty of dates and had dinner at the best restaurants. We even went to the spa together. I’ve bought her flowers, chocolates, clothes at the mall etc. I’ve told her I’m ready to commit and would really like the security of a relationship.
She tells me her last boyfriend promised her the world together and then ditched her in America to marry someone to get a green card . We both live in Canada btw. She tells me after that it take her longer to commit. She tells me maybe in June if everything is still going ok we can be official. The maybe part is what’s killing me.
So the last two dates prior to this one had ended in like 3 slow kisses. Then last night when I went to do one again she pulled away and said I could only do a cheek kiss. I told her don’t bother. I was hurt because here we are demoted back. She told me she went along with it the last 2 times but she’s actually not used to physical touch .
My issue is if we did end up being official will we never have sex? Like how will she move on from Being so hesitant to have physical touch? This has been so exhausting for me.