So basically I started having a physical relationship with someone (so like FWB) and when I ask him what he’s into he says that he wants me to cum with him. I ask him if he likes anything else and he says no that’s really just his thing. He keeps saying next time bring a vibrator, so I did but it was a new one so I wasn’t used to it and couldn’t orgasm and he said next time bring a different one. He keeps saying that he’s waiting for it to happen, but once it does what then? The way he says it is like after that there’s nothing left to do—maybe just the way he says it but I feel like afterwards he’d just be done with me? I’m just confused why it’s such a big deal that I cum?? Also I’ve never came during sex, just alone with a vibrator but nothing “comes out”— it’s just an orgasm/ feels good. When he says he wants to come with me does it mean that he wants me to squirt?