So I’m 21 year old male and I’m just really confused how I should be feeling sexually? I’ve only had one sexual partner in my life and it was a long term relationship so I’m not that knowledgeable in sexual acts. But I keep seeing people around my age both online and in person especially men be so sexually active and I guess constantly wanting to be sexual and I just don’t feel that way? I don’t think im asexual like strictly against sex but I do think I am demisexual. I also don’t know what being horny feels like? I guess I’m just not really that connected with my body. Because the only time I truly know what being in the mood felt like was when I was in a relationship and was around her that’s when my sexual drive spiked. But outside of a relationship I generally just masturbate and that’s it. This has caused me not to really seek out sexual/romantic relationships because I don’t want to do this and realize my sex drive is screwed up or something. Any idea if this is normal or not I’ve been playing around with the idea that I am demisexual or need some form of emotional connection to be in the mood sexually.

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