I never search to meet people I don’t go out more than 2 time by myself (so without studies) and I never wanted to meet people because I was not really interested and quite stressed, I become more and more curious when I see friend around me getting a girl or boyfriend. I can’t imagine myself with a man or a girl (don’t know if I am gay bu or hetero)
I also don’t want too meet people cause because I don’t go really move I not in a great forum and I want to start sport (don’t really motivate to tbh) before.
Soooo why I wrote that here, I don’t know I wanted to talk about my situation cause i don’t know how that work, what do you like being in couple?
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I suspect English isn’t your first language so I’m going to ask you a few questions to really get to the root of what you’re saying so I don’t misunderstand.
You spent most your time on your studies
You never devoted time to looking for a partner
You don’t feel attraction to either gender
But you see your friends in relationships and it makes you curious
You would like help understanding if you are missing something by not being in a relationship
Am I understanding you correctly?
Both but I think I am not ready to meet people, maybe I overthink this
It’s okay I (I’m a girl and bi) never dated anyone until litteraly 2days ago and I’m 24, no one never really interested me until her, I’ve never been in love and I’ve never been actively looking for someone either, you still have time dw.
I don’t have specific advices but I just want to say that’s it’s okay, everyone should go at their pace for things like this and I think forving too much is doing more bad than good.
Dont worry, I only had my first relationship at 25 and that’s absolutely fine 🙂
It’s just when I think being with someone It look weird, but I think it’s just because I never meet someone I love enought