I (19f) am trying to figure out how to tell the person I hook up with that it’s really bad. I’m a virgin so I may just be overthinking it but I have very long and uneven labias and I just don’t think it’s very attractive. To make it worse I had very bad digestive issues as a kid and now I have extra skin on my asshole. Every time I try to look it just makes me freak out that no one would ever find that attractive. I think I’m pretty attractive on the outside and the guys who hit on me are hot so I’m worried they are gonna see it and be disgusted or say like false advertisement or catfish. I saw that your supposed to let your partner know when you have hemorrhoids (I don’t have them now but It definitely doesn’t look pretty) but I have no idea how to bring it up. What do you say and how or when do you bring it up. These would be more hookups rather than a guy I’m dating.
Edit: Hey I think I should make it clear that it’s not really my vag I’m insecure about (well kinda, but I know everyone is different) it’s more that my asshole is so fucking ugly and because I had hemorrhoids as a kid there’s extra skin.