Hey fellas,
My girlfriend(20) and I(20) broke up a month ago, n we have decided to get back together next month. While broken up we were not on speaking terms however after 2 weeks we started speaking again because we work together. Within those 2 weeks I told my friend who told his friend that is her friend that we’re broken up.
He started to hit her up on ig and started to bad mouth me to her. He asked for her snapchat to tell her about it because he didn’t want it to be screenshotted. He then asked her a day later if she was single yet, she responded and asked why does he care, his response was a reply to her message of why does he care was “I’m waiting”. Which to us sounds like he is hitting on her and he denied it saying she made it seem weird not him and he meant he was waiting for a reponse.
She told me today about it and asked me what should she do. I told her to do what she thought was right and she wanted me to make that choice for her. So she gave me her phone to read the ig messages and confirmed everything and read over it. Asked her what he said in snapchat and it was nothing weird although there were no messages because of snapchats auto delete. I just unfollowed him on her ig acc and unfriended him on snap.
A little backstory is that this guy I was very suspicious of his intentions as imo most guys don’t just have a platonic friendship with girls unless they’re in a relationship, or complete dbags. I told her I don’t trust him and she said it was fine. So I trusted her and met him, he seemed cool and he didn’t really speak much to her when we were dating.
Do us guys have a thing to detect other guys tryna get with our parter?
Let me know what you guys think I should do.