For context We dont want anymore children so we dont wanna risk a pregnancy. birth control was destroying my mental health so i stopped them this week and condoms irritate me latex and non latex couldnt tell you why soo its about 4 months no sex right now
But the thing is im not great at handjobs or oral, i feel really insecure doing it, regular sex has always made me feel confident but i want to get better at other things any advice? He says im good at it but i feel like hes just being nice bc it takes awhile to make him finish from it if i do at all