The title should say My husband AND I…. Oh well….
I (50F) have been married for a long time to my husband (56M). In the beginning you are new to eachother and you are busy building your life together but now I find myself in a position when things have turned into routine. We have a stable financial situation, we own our house, stable jobs, no kids in the house…. We rarely ever argue about anything, we like hanging out with eachother…. But we have turned into roommates. We’ve talked about this and we both want to change this and spice up the romantic side of our relationship, not just sex (but it is also on the list) but playfulness, flirting, connecting in a sensual/sexual way. Have anyone done this? How did you do? I’ve heard about relationship apps (you get challenges/questions etc), do anyone have experience in those? Any advice is helpful.