I scheduled myself to see a gynecologist but the earliest they can get me in is June. Anyway, I have been experiencing libido loss. I am a woman. I don’t masturbate much and have never had sex due to my cultural and religious upbringing. I am 40. Just got engaged. My fiancee and I tried to be sexually intimate but something happened to me: I wanted sex and fantasize about it with him, but doesn’t matter what he does I can’t get aroused!
I have been stressing out about this and crying every day. I googled my symptoms, and things that come up scare me. Has anyone experienced similar where you wanted to make love but your body isn’t responding?
Even when I try touching myself solo, I feel nothing besides some wetness.
In the past, I had no problem being turned on,even though I was not sexually active. I fantasize about sex all the time, sometimes I feel turned on, but often not.
I am so stressed out!