Hi Reddit,
I have recently started seeing a new partner. She seems to like me telling her what to do, specifically when she’s playing with herself in front of me (or on video-calls when we’re not physically together).
This is the first time I’ve had someone ask me such a thing and I find myself flustered and at a loss. Honestly, it’s because I’m enjoying watching her do her thing – and learning how she likes to be touched. But I also want to meet her half-way and give her what she’s asking for.
If it helps, I did happen to say “good girl” at one point and that seemed to work wonders (she asked me to say it again). Hoping there are some tips or suggestions or ideas y’all could throw at me which I could use?