My GF and me had been best friends for a few years before we started dating – back then we met through a dating app. We’ve been on 3 dates before we decided to be friends, no sex – we never had the talk about dating exclusively before and during these 3 dates I was still seeing someone from my past back then.
She is telling me now that I made her participate in an involuntary non-monogamous relationship and is furious about it. She had known this for probably 3 years at this point. I apologized for my actions back then as I can see why she is not okay with it but she is so fucking angry at me for this but I don’t see how I was completely out of line.
TLDR: She believes I disrespected her by not immediately dating her exclusively.