I constantly feel annoying and do everything I can to make things easier and better for people. Big people pleaser. But it was brought to my attention that I’m annoying no matter what I do. I was with someone in the drive through and when they asked what I wanted, I stated the drink item I wanted which had a long name and I pointed it out on the menu. It was a new item in the middle of the screen. The person I was with started to ask for it but turned back to me with an annoyed expression and said “what??!” They had already seemed frustrated that day and while ordering their own items. To avoid more frustration, I stated I’d actually rather have a water instead. Easier to say and better for me anyways! I was instantly met with anger and was embarrassed when they loudly told me to just say what I wanted. To “just say it!!” I was in a sort of shock after and quietly pointed it out again and forgot about the water. I asked if they were okay and they told me I was annoying because I didn’t help and because I changed it to make it easier for them. They didn’t like it. I can’t stop thinking about it. They aren’t really talking to me right now and I’m confused. I never want to cause this again. If something happens like this in the future, I don’t even know what to do… How can I avoid being so annoying to people in these situations?