So I’m a dude and I never been good at making female friends. I hear about guys having tons of female friends and acting like it’s easy to get them.
In my life, girls have never wanted to be just friends. Either they had a crush and try to ruin my life when I reject them. Or they use me for emotional support and I don’t benefit at all from.
Short story about this is that back in college alot of girls wanted to be my “friend” and I had girls constantly walk up and ask for my number. I remember only having women to talk to by a senior. However, it was a bad experience overall. The women bullied me and just own me like a dog. Constantly felt underappreciated since my needs were never met. I became more feminine and would cry over my feelings getting hurt and lack alot of confidence. After I graduated, these girls never hit me up and I felt used.
I had to go to therapy to regain my self esteem. So very im very curious to know what has been your guys experience with female friends and is my situation just very abnormal.