Sadly, my marriage had crumbled. We got married at 18, now 26. My husband never grew up, spends his entire paycheck on gaming. Doesn’t help me at all, is extremely condescending, and truly only cares about sex. Ive tried working it out but I can’t keep living my life this way. I’m sick of living in a verbally abusive, sexually manipulated relationship. However, we have quite a bit of debt. I don’t even know that I can afford a lawyer, especially if it goes to a custody battle. I’m willing to share custody, however he has said before if I ever leave him he will “take “ our child. Whom he has never cared for on his own other than a few hours at a time. Has anyone ever been through this situation? Any advice?