I’m 25f and was going to have sex with the guy(25) I’ve been seeing for six weeks, for the first time yesterday. We’ve slept in the same bed together twice w/o doing anything because I didn’t feel ready which he was respectful of. However when it got to it yesterday he was hard until going to put it in and kinda just lost it.
I’ve never experienced this before and felt a little bad for him but also stuck wondering if it was me. From a guys perspective, what’s the best way for me to make sure he knows it’s okay? He admitted to overthinking it later and feeling bad.