So, there is this situationship I am in with this girl. I am 24m and she is 23F.
Long story short it started out super casual, got physical for a few hangs, then we both agreed to just be friends. Thats alright, right? Wrong.
6 months later I look back at our time together and she has repeatedly crossed my boundaries of friendship. Examples include hiding huge things about herself, sleeping in my bed (wtf?), loads of random platonic touching, love bombing, bringing me around bad people, ect.
Anyways , I dont want to talk to her anymore but I generally try to be kind and not heartless with break offs. But she has been untrustworthy, shady and pushy.
Does she deserve a clean break?
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Deserve is a hard word to use in the dating/hook up realm cause no one technically deserves anything. But I’d probably say something at the very least. Would be cowardly otherwise
“I believe it’s best for both of us to end our friendship. I value our time together, but I think it’s important for us to move forward in different directions. Wishing you all the best!”
Done