We have problems like all marriages, unfortunately I was working alot to get ready for retirement, super focused on making money to live comfortably when.i retire and I was not paying attention to my partner. Witch I did not Realize was doing that. I have made alot of bad decisions that i did not tolk to my partner (Witch I know is wrong). So I have been working on my self ( a little to late maybe?) My partner say that I am changing but they do know if they want to stay with me or not. Giving space I thought I was at least but I guess I am wrong still. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I AM SO CONFUSED AND HURT THAT I WAS THAT PERSON WHO DID NOT WANT THIS TO HAPPEN but it did I can’t change the passed I can only work on today.