For me, it’s never knowing if that female who’s so polite and shy, seems to have morals and values, your parents would love and adore her, you’re catching feelings for her and saying in your head “she’s the one!”,…. is the same female that has thousands of nude pictures and videos on Reddit and Twitter, a secret OF account, videos of blurred face on P**nhub, etc, and you’re aware of none of it.
That’s scary to me.