My girlfriend (44F) and I (44M) are in a long distance relationship and we only see each other about once a month. We have great sex multiple times a day during those 3-4 days that we see each other; however, by the end of the weekend sometimes even earlier I’m struggling to maintain any sense of an erection. I make up for it in other ways but getting to the finish line for me by Saturday evening and into Sunday just doesn’t happen.
I’ve been tested for low-T and came up better than normal for my age group, all of my other labs are in good shape. I’m wondering if it’s just my age or if I need to consider other alternatives… like a ring, or Ed meds?