We were out drinking with friends and I left early. When my gf (4 months) came back she was elated and told me of this group of guys they got to know. She said one of them was really handsome and he was really fliratious and into her.
She showed me the picture they had taken together. She said he had insisted to take one. He was indeed handsome, blue eyes, tall, he kinda reminded me of this Limitless actor. A league above me I guess, or two.
I felt uncomfortable about that. I contacted our mutual friend who she went to the bar with, and she said that nothing had happened, they had a casual conversation and my gf complimented him. But they left early. Idk whether to believe her or not since shes closer to my gf.
I found that this guy is following my gf on insta. I checked my girls phone at night, he had already texted her sth but she didnt read yet.
I have avoided her all morning, and she seems oblivious to how I feel. She tried talking once in a while and asked if was feeling alright. I said I’m fine and went out for a stroll. I don’t know how to proceed.
If she’s cheating, or doesn’t love me anymore, i want to leave without any word, but i’m just so confused right now. Should i risk it and ask her or leave silently?
tldr: gf is nonchalant about hurting my feelings by calling another man handsome and saying she regrets not giving into his advances.