My husband & I have been together for 4 years and married for 2. My husband isn’t a drunk but when he does drink and we have a disagreement he gets violent. Recently we were on vacation in st Lucia & he completely embarrassed me by being violent to me and damaging hotel property. This is the 3rd time something like this has happened & I really want to leave him but am embarrassed by gabby family & friends would say/think he says he’s sorry but I basically have to tell him what to do to make things up & that’s frustrating for me. I am beyond disappointed & embarrassed at this point and so many people are now involved. He’s been at a hotel but honestly I don’t think I want him to come home.