Advice on staying wet during

I’m f(18) It’s not hard for me to get wet before sex but during sex I always end up dry again. I like how it feels when I’m semi-dry but usually my partner doesn’t, or they think I’m not aroused enough by them which I don’t think is the case. I do orgasm and feel pleasure but I’m never wet enough for my partners. I’ve had sex with both genders and with my male partners it’s difficult for them to get off bc I’m so dry and for my female ones it ruins the mood and they feel like they aren’t trying hard enough or need to use lube. It’s very frustrating and I’m kind’ve ashamed of it. If any of you have advice on how or why this happened and what I can do about it that would be great. Also let me know if you are the same way so I don’t feel alone lol. I’m not on any medication, I’ve never been pregnant, and I don’t think arousal is a problem (The reasons google gave me). Ok thanks 😊