Me and my guy friend (28m) were friends but like we only hung out, kiss and hug that’s all. We never went further than that. We only hung out like three times alone but we hung out plenty of times with our mutual friends together. I know him for almost a year now. He keeps going back and forth ofnmeeting me and doing anything further. He wants to meet but then he changes his mind sometimes. We got in a fight couple months ago and he was going to pay half the money back to me
For the watch I got him for Christmas. He said it’s expensive and he didn’t want me to spend that much on me. I got mad and told him gift is a gift. After a month later we resolved our fight and started talking again as friends nothing more than that. Again he started changing his mind and said we can’t be friends after what happend between us and another fight continued. Two weeks we resolved again and started talking as friends. Today he brought up that he’s going to give back half the money I spent on the watch..
I feel like messaging him asking what his problem is … If he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore. It’s fine I will block you and move on.
Any idea in what to say to him back or any thoughts on why he is behaving like this going back and forth.. I thought of telling him this “if you want to give it back it then it’s fine.. but to me it seems like you don’t want to be my friend anymore because you keep going back and forth.. I will change my path away from you and you can live happily. Wish you all the best for your future. But I’m tired of these games..