Adding to the title, how would I know we are ready, or if this is a rash decision
My girlfriend recently had an experience with a women who she used to know, while drunk she ended up making out with her and loved it. She now wants a threesome with her, she’s been into the idea but was way too nervous about me catching feelings, the idea has been a turn on for me as well but I assured her I’d only do it if she wanted too, I also told her that I’m committed to her, no girl in a threesome is going to make me want to leave her.
she had also never done anything with a women, so this make out session I guess gave her what she needed to know she’d enjoy a women sexually. Now here are my worries
1. I may cum too fast, I’m into it, but having sex with two women may be too much for me even though I’m usually okay with lasting an okay amount of time
2. I worry about my oral/finger skills, I know the other women will be better as she’s a women, they know their own anatomy better.
3. What about condoms, it’s going to be hard switching if I have to put one on each time, I haven’t gotten tested but my girlfriend has and she’s clean so I assume I am.
4. What questions and topics do I need to bring up to my girlfriend before this, as I’m sure even though we are both excited, that it’s not something with should do lightly.
5. Toys? I have some, should I use them.