My bf and I have been talking about taking a trip for our anniversary for a while now. When talking about our schedules today, we discovered we’re both pretty much free the actual week of our anniversary, and I’d love to go on the trip that week. He told me he doesn’t want to go that week because it is his cats birthday… I don’t feel prioritized at all and am hurt. I told him “can’t you celebrate a few days early or late, since she won’t know the difference?” He said “she won’t, but I will”. I don’t know what to do