Okay, I know this is going to sound like a trauma-dump and I don’t mean for it to come across as such, but for context, I am a widower and a single father. I work essentially full-time and go to the gym as often as I can after work, which is typically late at night as I get off work at around 1 am. As a result of this, I get home a couple of hours earlier than the time I wake my son up to get ready for school and after he goes to school I lay down to try to sleep. Now for my question: how does a man in my position get back into the dating scene while relearning how to date and also wrestling with a crippling fear of losing another loved one as well as a near-painful craving for intimacy?