so my boyfriend (18m) and I (20f) have been together for two months now but we’ve talked for like 3 months prior to making it official, and yet his CLOSEST and childhood friends do not know about me. he once told me that his friends “don’t do relationships” and just aren’t “fans” of relationships and I’m not sure if that’s part of the reason why he hasn’t told them. should I be stressing about this
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If yall talked for 3 months and his closest friends still didn’t know about you that’s weird. He’s hiding you for whatever reason and I would break it off tbh. If you’ve brought it up as a concern and his reasoning is his friends “don’t do relationships” that’s just an excuse. I (20F) have talked to many men with friends who “don’t do relationships” and that has never stopped them from showing me off. And their friends are always supportive and hype him/me. If they don’t like relationships I don’t see how that would affect how they view their bestfriends relationship. I would cut it here tbh. Him and his friends might be too immature +there’s a reason he’s hiding you