I’m about 6 months in to a new job, and it really isn’t the best environment for someone like me. I don’t mind the job itself, but my coworkers definitely make my life more difficult. The vibe is very cliquey and many people go out of their way to instigate and stir up drama. I try to stay neutral, even when people want to get a reaction out of me. There are a few people with narcissistic tendencies, some who are passive aggressive, and some who try to treat me like their punching bag. In the past I would bite my tongue and put up with the abuse but lately I snap back and get just as snarky as the others. I don’t regret standing up for myself, but I don’t know if I want to be this version of myself.
Do I just dissociate and detach to get through the day? Do I just take the abuse and try to have a sense of humor?
I’ve tried being friendly. I’ve tried being understanding. They don’t respect my kindness.
How do I get along with people like this?