18M, currently in college. I basically spend all my time “grinding”(side projects, school, hanging out w friends, gym). I feel like my friends are kinda surface level, though. Like I can talk to them about working out or something but can’t tell them how I break down and cry like twice a week for the past month. I also feel I can’t hang out with them, they are mostly people I talk to when I see them and nothing else. I’m jealous of people who can just go to the city on a weekend and enjoy some food, especially with female friends, which I basically have none of since my “friend” from high school who I thought was my friend basically will never text me first and takes ages to reply to me. I go to clubs, but they are mostly academic oriented and I don’t have time recently since I’ve been focusing on academics. How should I get more “real” friends, especially female friends?