Female here. I have been in a rough spot personally and my husband has been very supportive. It’s impacted our sex life and I feel like I don’t know how to be around him or how to approach him anymore to create the emotional intimacy for us to be physically intimate. That’s on/about me and the emotional stuff I’ve been dealing with.
What can I do to bring back the intimacy? He’s the type who needs the feeling to build. I can’t just come in and be overly sexual, it’s a turn off and will not lead to desired results. I’m not good at the subtle thing and I don’t know what to do. I want him so bad but I don’t know how to show it in a way he receives well. It’s been difficult lately and I feel stupid. I just want “us” back and I’m not doing it very well.