Been seeing this guy for a few months who I really like. He was moving out of his flat and I offered to help him clear out his closet/take some clothes to goodwill. One of his winter jackets had a ziplocked baggie with various women panties.
I wasn’t sure what it was at first and asked him if it was an exes or something. He was very embarrassed and said he would collect women’s panties previously and I shouldn’t make a big deal of it. So it’s not 1 it’s several??
I get major serial killer vibes from this. He’s American, I’m not. Is this a cultural thing that’s acceptable? I don’t imagine so. What does that mean and why would you do that? Is this a dealbreaker? I’m very freaked out.
Edit 1) wow wasn’t expecting this much response! Thank you everyone -I’m gonna cool off on this guy.
Edit 2) I mentioned if I wasn’t sure if American as I saw in movies from US where women take their bra off and hand off to men and it’s a ‘thing’, wasn’t sure if this was some sort of case.
Edit 3) to answer- they were used panties. And from various women. I knew coz diff sizes, styles, and he did admit that he did this.