So, over the years we’ve been quite adventurous.
Over the last few years our sex life has diminished due to perimenopours etc. Her libido has dipped alot.
We are working on it, when I say we I mean her and me being patient.
We haven’t swung for many years in fact a couple of decades truth be known. She has shown no interest in that side of our sexual life.
The other day whilst talking, she said something that caught me out and pricked up my ears at the same time.
She said I’m the only one allowed to go bareback because older people suffer from STDs a lot, even though they think its OK ‘I’m not going to get pregnant’!
Am I reading too much into this, or should I brace myself for when she gets her mojo back?
Maybe this is the wrong place for this but I needed to say it out loud – so to speak.