So I made another post here a few days ago about how I met someone here on reddit out of complete random during a time I wasn’t looking to date because I’m prioritizing my studies but this just so happened out of nowhere.
Long story short, I made a post on another subreddit one day, and a guy dms me regarding the post I made in that subreddit, and we kept on talking from there. It’s been a week now, and I know it might sound too soon for some people, but I genuinely feel like I’m developing feelings for this guy ðŸ˜
which is extremely rare for me because for one, I’ve never really had a serious relationship before, I don’t really date, and dont use dating apps yet he just happened to show up in to my life right now. I already had a bad break up with someone else a few months ago, and I didn’t want to date again any time soon.
We’ve been talking a lot and sending each other pictures and whatnot (nothing sexual though lol), but the problem is he lives states away from me. We are not close.
Today we spoke about the possibility of meeting in person some day but I told him that might not happen because we met online and we don’t live in the same state and I’m not motivated to travel where he lives. I don’t even travel in general. I’m an extreme homebody.
He seems like a genuinely cool guy. I love talking to him, but I feel we need to stop talking because I’m still hesitant with the idea of meeting someone I only met online and someone who doesn’t live close to me. It feels like a huge risk to me because what if I don’t like him in person the same way I like him online and the traveling was all in vain.
It sucks because he makes me feel happy, but I feel this won’t end well if we keep on talking any further. But I hate that I also can’t stop thinking of him. It’s crazy