I feel like I might have been leading someone on.
I (20f) and T (19m) met at a party and have been on 3 dates. We have not yet made out, slept together etc and all of our dates have been somewhat unromantic with no handholding or kissing. We live in different cities but attent the same university. We went home for spring break a few weeks ago and he has asked to comr to my city to see him. I said yes without much thought but have now realised that he probably wants to take things further and I am still struggling with knowing whether I want that. I haven’t felt much of that special spark but do love talking to him and we get on very well. Should I let things go further and see where it goes or should I shut it down now?