Am I being too soft? I get that we all probably need someone to vent to. But it makes me feel weird around her friends bc I have no idea what she’s vented to them. Does she ever say anything positive or just negative? Judging by her friends reactions sometimes I think she says negative things and that makes me feel weird.
Id like it more if those negatives & conflicts stayed between us, I don’t see any benefit in venting to friends unless the friend can provide very good advice. Thoughts? Am I being too soft here?